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One of the most common phrases that people use to validate wasting their money is that they “only live once”. Without getting into any theological and philosophical arguments, let’s just assume that statement is true. You only live once, so my question to you would be this. What are you waiting for?

What does it mean to live life to the fullest? It’s obviously a relative statement, and would depend on what someone considers to be “living a full life“. What it means to you, could be far from what it means to me. For some people, it means constantly seeking the next best adrenaline rush, right up until the very end. For others it’s getting married, having kids, working hard, making it to retirement where the beaches are endless, and the views are plentiful.

That’s great, but here’s what it means to me. It simply means to live my life being as happy as I can be, helping as many people as I can help, and loving as much as I can love. There are a lot of ways to get there, and there are a lot of obstacles in my path. My goal is to make that path as obstacle-free as possible. You probably already know where I am going with this don’t you?

“Hmmm…well this is a personal finance blog, and the guy really does hate debt.”

YES IT’S DEBT!!!

Debt is an obstacle that was keeping me from experiencing that “living life to the fullest” feeling, I was desperately seeking. It definitely took my hope, slammed it on the ground, and stomped on it tirelessly. It kept me from helping a lot of people too, and for the purpose of this argument I am referring to money. Being in debt kept me from being able to give the way I know God wants me to give. I think people have misinterpreted it to mean, “give” all your money to the banks!

The banks don’t help your neighbors.

It also kept me from loving and protecting my family as best I could. The best I could was not ignoring the fact that we had no emergency fund, and $26,076.75 in debt. The best I could was not giving my each and every paycheck up, to pay for something I enjoyed in memories past. And that’s just financially!

What about psychologically? The best I could do was be stressed out most of the time. The best I could do was point fingers and blame others. Being stressed and fighting about money will most definitely keep you from living life to the fullest, if it doesn’t flat out ruin it all together. Debt can bring your whole world crashing down in an instant.

When it does, will you be able to say you truly lived life to the fullest?

One minute you are on top of the world, and the next minute you are shaking hands with life. What would your conversation with life sound like? Let’s listen and see.

Welcome to the very first episode of the “EOD Shorts”. (as in short story)

EOD SHORTS

Episode 1: Behavior Meets Reality (Guest starring – Life as himself)

(You are trying to live life to the fullest, but something is stopping you and you just don’t know what it is. Your finances are in shambles, bill collectors are blowing your phone up while telling you you’re not a man, and the word divorce is starting to creap into each and every conversation with your spouse. Let’s face it, you are about to hit rock bottom.)

That’’s when you are introduced to LIFE…again.

YOU: Hey life. Man, where did you come from? We were just about to live life to the fullest.

LIFE: Yeah well, I tried to hold off on stopping by until you were better prepared, but I just couldn’t wait anymore.

YOU: I wish you could of waited just a little bit longer, because we just cannot get any traction. Our debt is killing us, causing us to fight, we can barely put food on the table, and me and the wife (or vice-versa :D ) are talking about getting a divorce. What am I supposed to do now?

LIFE: Ever considered living debt free? There are tons of free resources to help you, but the main thing is that you have to change your behaviors. You are broke, and it has everything to do with the decisions you’ve made. If you were out of debt, it wouldn’t solve all your problems, but it could certainly give you an advantage that you currently don’t have.

YOU: (head down, depressed) I guess you could be on to something, but where in the world do I begin? I’m just not motivated.

LIFE: Well there’s been some talk about this guy that runs a blog called Enemy of Debt. It sounds like he means business, and from what I’ve heard he tells it like it is. I’ve heard stories of him getting in people’s faces and actually slapping them with the cold hard truth. They say it works though,  if you’re really ready for change. Here, take this business card and go subscribe. It’s free, what do you have to lose?

YOU: Man, I am so sick and tired of being sick and tired. You really think he can motivate me to get this resolved? I can do nothing and hit rock bottom, or I can turn things around. Common sense says to….

LIFE: (Rudely interrupts) Yeah yeah okay, but you still owe me $1800 for the caved in plumbing.

MORAL OF THE STORY:

Get out of debt so you can live your life to the fullest, because like they say, “you only live once”. Oh yeah, one more thing. Life doesn’t care if you’re prepared or not, it’s going to happen regardless. You may as well do the work to prepare for when it does.

GO LIVE BY LIVING DEBT FREE!! Enemy of Debt can help!

As always, I would love to hear your thoughts in the comments section. let’s talk about living life to the fullest, shall we?

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The results of my research for my guest lecture to the class: The Psychology of Money and Wealth.

Money and WealthI was researching material for this lecture and came across this question. What stops people from succeeding financially, and having ongoing prosperity in their life? The answer is something I have addressed many times on this blog. The answer is believing that it is not possible to succeed financially, or even be prosperous in other areas of your life. A persons attitude about money is the number one hindrance to acquiring wealth and prosperity.

Your attitude affects your behavior, and your behavior determines your ability to succeed. Some attitudes about money that affect behavior include:

  • You have to work hard to make money.
  • I will never be rich.
  • Having money isn’t spiritual.
  • Life is one giant struggle.
  • Money is hard to manage.
  • You need money to make money.
  • It’s too late to start thinking about building wealth.
  • I don’t have what it takes to become wealthy.

Do you believe some or all of these self-limiting attitudes?

If you do, then maybe you should swish this around for a minute or two:

“Wealth is not what a person has. It is a state of mind.” -  thewealthymind.com

These attitudes about money and wealth start at an early age, and most often come from the most influential people in our lives—our parents and family. Those initial “imprints” coupled with FEAR cause us to accept that we are financially treading water. Fear paralyzes us into submission by tricking us into believing that we cannot possibly achieve what we believe is unachievable. Here’s a  famous quote by someone who perhaps understood perfectly well how fear affected the human psyche.

“The only thing we have to fear, is fear itself.” – Franklin D. Roosevelt 1933

Stop being afraid and just believe in yourself.

I’ve said it before. What you believe is what you achieve. If you don’t believe it, you certainly can never achieve it. Once you face your fear you will be amazed at how very little you had to worry about in the first place. (Like me with public speaking for example—something I used to fear A LOT!) That’s not to say that you will not encounter difficulty or even some degree of failure, but failure in and of itself—is not, and should not be seen as necessarily bad. It’s how we learn how to be successful. I’ve also said that,  “Successful people fail far more often than unsuccessful people.” Successful people fail but eventually succeed, while unsuccessful people fail by not trying at all.

You could go around all day and claim that you have never failed, but what if you instead said, “Hey everybody look at me, I have never tried”? Sounds a little different when you say it like that doesn’t it? Then there are the people who try, fail, and then give up—perhaps because they feel that someone only gets one chance at success in life.

Imagine for a second, what things would be like today, if anyone who had ever tried anything stopped after only one try. No iPods. No PS3’s. No iPhones. No plasma televisions. The list would go on and on wouldn’t it?

There is something else that affects your attitude when it comes to money. Can you guess what it is?

Prepare yourself. You might not expect this coming from me. Okay, I’ll just say it—it’s DEBT! There I said it. Now look what you’ve made me do. I feel so dirty. ;)

cool shopping barbie

Seriously though, debt puts us in a state of mind that says we can not have anything without borrowing to get it. If we continue to live like that—we are doomed! Take a look around.

This mindset was formed as a child every time we witnessed our parents swipe their “beloved” plastic friend which made them oh so warm inside. Or what about the times we heard from their very mouths the phrase, “I’ll just use my credit card”?

Dave Ramsey points out in his Financial Peace University course—the “cool Shoppin’ Barbie” comes fully equipped with a “cool” MasteredCard. When you swipe your cool credit card Barbie says “Credit Approved”. You see—the credit card companies have a plan, and it’s not to fill your hat closet full of hats.

The warning on the box reads, “WARNING: Choking Hazard” when it should read: WARNING: Quicksand Ahead!

We never seem to outgrow that “kid in the candy store” mentality that tells us we must have it, and must have it now or else. Or else what you ask? Well, the child would pitch a temper tantrum, while the adult would also pitch a temper tantrum just plops out the credit card, all while convincing themselves that they deserve whatever it is they are buying at the time—regardless of how it affects them financially. I know because I used to be that guy. That guy was broke, stressed, unhappy, and that guy was duped!

How do you become an adult financially?

Change the attitude–>that affects your behavior–>that causes the financial disaster–>that kills your hope!

How do you do that? Do you want to know how I did it? I GOT OUT OF DEBT!

You can do it too! Enjoy financial independence with me, it’s completely worth the effort.

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student debtMYTH:  You Have To Go Into Debt To Get An Education

Can you be a student without a student loan?  Some people say it’s not possible, while others prove them wrong every year.  Granted, the percentage of those diving head first into student debt is astounding, but with savings in America being low to negative, it comes as no surprise.  I think America needs a paradigm shift.  Americans have super inflated the value of a degree, therefore declaring it worthwhile to go into loads of debt to get one.  I think a degree is important but I do not think it is important enough to swim in the sea of bondage it creates, giving you immediate stress upon graduation.

Stress can be so overwhelming that it can cause you to make decisions, that should be considered with care, to be made in haste.  For instance, because of the added pressure, you may take the first job offer you get instead of waiting for the one you deserve the most.  Student loans hang out for a LOOOOONG time too.  What if there was another way?

College Planning VS Student Loans (which one is the more responsible choice?)

  1. Planning is thinking first, and acting second.
  2. Getting a loan is acting first, and planning second.

Don’t pick one based on what everyone else is doing.  Pick the one that makes the most financial sense.

The most responsible answer is so obvious. (I am slightly biased, but having a plan is common sense, is it not?) ;)

By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.“  – Benjamin Franklin

Be assured that it gives much more pain to the mind to be in debt, than to do without any article whatever which we may seem to want.” – Thomas Jefferson

(Thomas Jefferson knew the pain of debt first hand.)

What Are Your Options?

  1. Working to save for tuition while in high school – Now I realize that working in your teenage years may not be very desirable.  It is also important not to work too much so that you have enough time to study hard for high school, but if you save for 2 years, you could save almost half of what the average students have in student loans upon graduation.  ($22,500)  (Saving $100 a week to fund an ESA or other Educational IRA’s for 2 years will give you more than $10,000 without counting interest.Maybe you could talk to your parents about matching what you save to help you out if possible.
  2. Parent funded savings account for college - (not as popular but I think it is the BEST method!) I personally think that this is the best option if it’s not too late.  As a parent, I think that everything I can do to set my kids up for success should be done.  If you can’t afford it then you’re not obligated but if you can then why not right?  For the record, if a parent has not done this but later feels guilty and wants to fund their kids college debt is not the way to do it.  You shouldn’t weaken your own financial situation by going into debt.  This is why a plan is important, and why we need to start thinking about these things before it is too late.
  3. Scholarships And Grants – This option should always be applied to any college plan.  There are FREE scholarships and grants all over the place to be taken advantage of.  If you fill out hundreds of applications you will receive some monetary assistance!
  4. Pay-as-you-go plan – In a “microwave, get rich quick, must have it now society”, this option is frowned upon.  We want everything now with little to no effort, but the true key to becoming successful in anything is slow and steady.  Because of debt we have convinced ourselves that having something now is more important that being able to actually afford it.  I am currently taking a class each semester until we can afford for me to go full time.  (which will occur after completion of baby step 3: Fully Funded Emergency Fund of $15,000)
  5. Take a year or two off after high school to save – I can already hear the groans and boos, but hear me out.  It seems as though teens choose a degree just to choose a degree instead of choosing one to take advantage of their passions and abilities.  Let’s face it, most teens have no idea what they are truly good at or what there passionate about with so little life experience.  Perhaps this is why it is so easy to find a student who has a degree in something they are not using.  (They have that piece of paper though right?)  The piece of paper only has value if it can be used.  Otherwise it is useless!
  6. Go for the education instead of the piece of paper – Education is more important than diploma. Education to me is about what you learn not how much you learn.  The system in place wishes to diversify your talents when I believe your studies could be more centrally focused around what you want to become an expert in.  I think we learn a little of everything in high school for a well rounded education.  In college it’s time to specialize.  How is a science class going to make me more successful in the world of finance.  You can always take the fill in classes you need for a diploma later after you have become an expert in your career of choice. (This option can not always be used for specific career paths, like doctors, lawyers, and other high tech specialists.)
  7. Pick a cheaper school to lower your tuition costs – Pedigree isn’t what it used to be.  While some would disagree, a degree is no more valuable just because you paid more for it.  Pick a school close to home and you can save tons of money.  Debt is not worth what you pay for it!
  8. Read, read, and read some more – No matter what you should do this.  Keep that brain stimulated and learn everything you can while you can.  You don’t have to go to college to learn, you just have to possess a desire to excel.  You might not be able to be a doctor by just reading but there are SO MANY other careers where you can.  With technology and the internet, the possibilities are no longer conventional.  Become an expert in your field!

“The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them.”Mark Twain

College Planning Is Part Of The Total Money Makeover

Planning to send your kids to college one day doesn’t have to be a difficult task.  In The Total Money Makeover parents can plan for their kids college costs once they get to baby step 5, right before paying off the house.

Dave Ramsey suggests that you use tax-favored plans.  He says that you should first save in an Educational Savings Account (ESA), which will allow you to save $2,000 (after tax) per year, per child.  That’s about $166 a month per child.  (If you don’t have car payments this should be EASY huh?)

If you want to save above that, OR you do not meet the income requirements for an ESA, you can use a 529 plan that leaves you in control of the mutual funds at all times.

Avoid plans that:

  • freeze your options
  • change based on the age of your child

He also suggests that after you’ve done all that, you could move to an UTMA or UGMA plan.  (Uniform TRANSFER/GIFT to Minors Act) What you should know about these plans:

  • One way to save but not the best of all other options
  • Account is listed in kids name
  • Parent or guardian manages account until:
    • UTMA – child is 21
    • UGMA – child is 18

Three “NEVERS” of College Saving

  1. Never save for college using insurance
  2. Never save for college using savings bonds
  3. Never pre-pay for college tuition

Do you have any student loan stories?  Would you have done it all differently if you could do it again?  Share your thoughts…

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A Little History

pontiac vibe

CAR PAYMENT

When we started our Total Money Makeover in January of 2008 with just over $25,000 in debt, not including our house, we made some extreme decisions.  I only say extreme because most people looked at me like I was insane.  The truth is that I was.  I was insane to keep driving a car with a payment. We had a very nice 2004 Pontiac Vibe that we absolutely loved.  It was a great car!  The problem was that the car had a monthly price tag of $300 a month plus additional costs such as higher insurance and property taxes.  We sold that car payment and immediately knocked $8,000 off of our debt load.

Luckily, at the time, we were only upside down on the car to the tune of about $280.  I would say that is not usually normal, as most people are thousands of dollars in the hole with their cars.  We were so pleased to have knocked down our debt but as I said, people treated me like I was irrational.  After all, most people will tell you that they will ALWAYS have a car payment.  Not me, not us, and not you if you’re smart! Yeah I said it!  It is smarter to pay cash for your car and have no payments dragging around behind it.

Meet The Vibe’s Replacement A.K.A. “The Clunker”

IH8DEBT

CLUNKER

Our very nice 2004 Pontiac Vibe was replaced with a 1985 Honda CRX.  At first I was reluctant, but it didn’t take me long to warm up to the blue rocket.  The savings made it easier but the truth is that it was a great car right from the beginning.  It was fast, good on gas, and had lots of character, it just wasn’t the prettiest thing to look at.  At first, I wondered what people thought about my clunker but soon realized it didn’t matter what they thought.  We were finally released from the Joneses stranglehold, and we no longer cared what they thought.  It was a very liberating feeling to tell the Joneses to get lost! You should give it a try!

I not only used my cash clunker to get around town in but I also used it to deliver pizzas in.  Talk about wear and tear!  Actually the CRX held up great and I did have to fix a few things along the way but it was to be expected.  The car is 24 years old!  I added over 50,000 miles to the clunker and drove it for a little more than a year and a half.  I would say that I definitely got $500 worth out of it over that time, not to mention I can still sell it for about $300.  The downgrade was worth it in EVERY way!  It saved us money, lowered our debt load, and enabled us to rethink what was important in life.

Needless to say, I had to replace the beloved CRX.  My very first enemy of debt mobile had to retire.  As most of you know we are having another baby in October.  In case you don’t know the CRX is only a two-seater which already caused us problems from time to time, plus the clutch finally started to slip.  It was time for an upgrade.  Bye bye blue rocket…

The Great 14 Year Upgrade

Saturn 1999

UPGRADE

So I went from a 1985 to a 1999!!  :) Now I would love to tell you that we saved money during the year and a half that I drove the beater in order to replace it, but the truth is we didn’t.  At first we had a $500 fund to be spent on fixing any problems but it didn’t take long to burn through that.  We will be sure to plan for repairs as well as replacement this time around.  Normally this situation would have really stressed us out but not this time.  Why?  Well mostly because we only needed $500-$1000 to replace the beater and we have our debt snowball money to dip into, and if need be, we have our emergency fund.

Lucky for us we didn’t need to use any emergency fund money.  My In-laws are also benefiting from their Total Money Makeover, so they decided to sell us one of their cars for $500.  They were ready for an upgrade themselves and wanted to help us out.  For the record, that is what a Total Money Makeover does for people.  It allows you the opportunity to be more generous.  Most people are already generous but the truth is they aren’t in a situation to give like they want.  A Total Money Makeover puts you in a position to give!Saturn 1999-1

So what am I driving now?  A 1999 Saturn S-Series.  It has about 82,000 miles on it and is in excellent condition.  Meet my new car, but I can hardly call this one a clunker or a beater.  I guess “cash car” will just have to do.  :)   The new enemy of debt mobile is AWESOME!  I really love it, and the best part is that there is NO DEBT involved.  You don’t have to have a car payment, usually you just choose to because you too are trying to keep up with the Joneses, or you have just bought the myth that says it’s the only way to own a car.  I will NEVER EVER have another car payment for as long as I live.

Do You Have A Car Payment?

The best thing you could ever do is to get rid of it and drive a paid for cash car.  Imagine how much extra money you could have to save, invest or give!  Consider getting rid of that debt load!  Consider a Total Money Makeover!  Your car will drive a lot better without the weight of debt!

Have you secretly wanted to dump your debt infested car OR do you think having a car payment is unavoidable?  Share your thoughts below in the comments section.  I would love to have a healthy discussion about it!

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Alleviate The Anguish Of Debt – Commit Yourself To A Frugal Lifestyle

This is a guest post from my good friend Clair Schwan from Frugal Living Freedom.  I hope you enjoy it and please go over to his site and check out all of the great information he has worked hard to provide you.
ENJOY!
If you’re in need of help with your debt, you’ll likely need help [...]

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Top Ten DUMBEST Reasons To Get A Pay Day Loan!

WARNING: The list below has been known to cause delusional thoughts and irrational behavior. If what you are about to read sounds like a good plan, you have been hypnotized and must vacate immediately.  You are in DANGER!  If you want to know what using a pay day loan company feels like, go donate ALL [...]

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“He Who Has Not Christmas In His Heart, Will Never Find It Under A Tree.” ~Roy L. Smith

The Spin-Off
First I just want to thank everyone for participating in yesterdays discussion.  I enjoyed it so much and am pleased to see that all of you did too.  SO THANK YOU!  To be honest yesterdays post started as just another Christmas Gift idea article.  Then it transformed into what you enjoyed so much, so [...]

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Oh No It’s Monday: Carnival Edition

Good morning everyone!
It’s Monday and I hope everyone had a fantastic weekend!  Some of you who follow me closely know I am ending the summer semester in my public speaking class today.  In fact, I have to squeeze together a persuasive speech to give to my class tonight.  Usually I am in the final [...]

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Public Service Announcement: Cash For Clunkers Equals Debt For Suckers

Poooof!! And The Government Said Let There Be…Three Billion Dollars!
Now this is just getting silly!  This post is about DEBT!  The Cash For Clunkers program has been, or is in the process of being revitalized.  Yep, that’s right.  Two billion dollars out of thin air, or maybe I should say, out of your children’s children’s [...]

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Government Reliance Vs. Personal Responsibility- Wait Or Create?

Now I have said this before, but I’ll say it again.  This is not a political blog, and I intend to keep it that way.  However, with so many things happening right now in Washington that a) involves money and debt, and b) involves you, I think it’s relevant.  I want to compare Government reliance [...]

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